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Ideas for a small group night.

Group nights bring together four to eight people who all fit as friends. These ideas work well for a group that's just met. There are 75 here.

Why these work

Built-in teams

Trivia and games split a group naturally.

Room to mingle

Tours and markets let people drift and talk.

Voted on together

Everyone ranks the ideas and can veto one.

A man and a woman playing a board game

The ideas

Attraction

  • Capitol or courthouse tourFree · Indoors
  • Dam or power-plant visitor centerFree · Indoors
  • Architecture tourUnder $20 · Outdoors
  • Factory or maker tour (chocolate, candy, a pottery works)Under $20 · Indoors
  • Ferry ride to somewhere newUnder $20 · Outdoors
  • Guided neighborhood walking tourUnder $20 · Outdoors
  • Historic cemetery tourUnder $20 · Outdoors
  • Historic mansion or landmark buildingUnder $20 · Indoors
  • Lighthouse or observation towerUnder $20 · Indoors or out
  • Mission or historic fortUnder $20 · Outdoors
  • Public garden or arboretumUnder $20 · Outdoors
  • Train or trolley museumUnder $20 · Indoors
  • Ghost tour$20–60 · Outdoors
  • Guided cave tour$20–60 · Indoors
  • Riverboat ride or harbor cruise$20–60 · Outdoors

Class

  • Language conversation meetupFree · Indoors
  • Beginner dance lesson (salsa, swing, two-step)Under $20 · Indoors
  • Beginner improvUnder $20 · Indoors
  • Photography walkUnder $20 · Outdoors
  • Cooking class$20–60 · Indoors
  • Cooking class from a country neither has visited$20–60 · IndoorsLearn it together from scratch
  • Flower arranging$20–60 · Indoors
  • Painting night$20–60 · Indoors
  • Pottery wheel class$20–60 · Indoors
  • Perfume or fragrance-blending workshop$60–150 · Indoors
  • Chef-led cooking class at a culinary school$150+ · Indoors

Outdoors

  • Citizen-science bird countFree · OutdoorsLog as many species as you can in an hour
  • Geocaching hunt in a parkFree · OutdoorsFind three hidden caches together
  • Guided birdwatching walkFree · Outdoors
  • Nature center programFree · Outdoors
  • Stargazing nightFree · Outdoors
  • Garden photo challengeUnder $20 · OutdoorsTen photos on a theme the app picks
  • Kite flying in the parkUnder $20 · OutdoorsBuild or buy one each and see whose flies higher
  • Dude ranch day visit: trail ride, roping lesson, chuckwagon lunch (day only, no overnight)$60–150 · Outdoors
  • Horseback trail ride with a guide$60–150 · Outdoors

Seasonal

  • Holiday lights walkFree · Outdoors · Winter
  • Outdoor movie in the parkFree · Outdoors · Summer
  • Sunrise hike before the heatFree · Outdoors · Summer
  • Volunteering at a holiday mealFree · Indoors · Winter
  • Wildflower walk at a nature centerFree · Outdoors · Spring
  • Corn maze or pumpkin patchUnder $20 · Outdoors · Fall
  • Garden tourUnder $20 · Outdoors · Spring
  • Outdoor concert series opening nightUnder $20 · Outdoors · Spring
  • Symphony holiday concert$60–150 · Indoors · Winter

Culture

  • Historic walking tourUnder $20 · Outdoors
  • Museum favoritesUnder $20 · IndoorsEach picks a favorite piece in every room, then compare
  • Museum with a guided tourUnder $20 · Indoors
  • Planetarium showUnder $20 · Indoors
  • Food truck crawl$20–60 · OutdoorsSplit everything, and rank them together
  • Tasting (coffee, chocolate, olive oil)$20–60 · Indoors
  • Tourist in your own city$20–60 · OutdoorsTake the trolley or hop-on tour you've never bothered with
  • After-hours museum member event$60–150 · Indoors

Volunteering

  • Animal shelter shiftFree · Indoors or out
  • Build day with a housing nonprofitFree · Indoors or out
  • Community garden workdayFree · Indoors or out
  • Food bank sortingFree · Indoors or out
  • Meal-packing eventFree · Indoors or out
  • Park or trail cleanupFree · Indoors or out

Fitness

  • Group hikeFree · Outdoors
  • Beginner yogaUnder $20 · Indoors
  • Charity 5K walk or runUnder $20 · Outdoors
  • Pickleball open playUnder $20 · Indoors or out
  • Tennis clinic$20–60 · Outdoors
  • Golf clinic or group lesson$60–150 · Outdoors

Games

  • Local history scavenger huntFree · OutdoorsFind five landmarks from an old photo set
  • Trivia nightFree · Indoors
  • Arcade best of fiveUnder $20 · IndoorsFive games, loser picks the next side-by-side
  • Board-game café puzzle raceUnder $20 · IndoorsRace another table to finish the same puzzle
  • Scavenger or puzzle huntUnder $20 · Indoors
  • Escape room with a group of strangers$20–60 · Indoors

Books

  • "Bring a book you loved" nightFree · Indoors
  • Bookshop reading or signingFree · Indoors
  • Library talk or workshopFree · Indoors
  • Meet-the-author eventFree · Indoors

Spectator

  • Open-mic nightFree · IndoorsWatch, and each predicts who'll get the biggest laugh

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