Starting over
Starting over, at your own pace.
After a divorce, your social life often needs rebuilding as much as your love life. Zydeby lets you start with friends or a small group, and add dating when you're ready.
Free to join. Works in your browser and on iPhone.
Built for a fresh start
Friends first, if you like
Choose friends, groups or mentoring now and add dating later. Nothing is shown that you haven't chosen.
Honest about your situation
Say you've been married before and whether you have kids at home. Matches respect what matters to you.
No pressure
Private decisions, expectations set up front, and nobody told if you pass.
Others in the same place
Phase of life matching connects you with people who've been through something similar.
Questions
Will my match know I'm divorced?
Only if you choose to share that answer after you both decide to meet. Otherwise it only shapes matching.
I'm separated, not divorced. Can I use dating?
You can say you're separated. Married and partnered members are matched for friends, groups and mentoring only.
Keep exploring
A fresh start can begin with a single afternoon.
Free to join, in your browser or on iPhone. Answer at your own pace, and skip anything with “Rather not say.”