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Step by step

Planning, without the back-and-forth.

Settling where and when can take a dozen messages. Zydeby does it in one screen each: rank the ideas, say what you'll handle, and the app combines your answers into one plan.

Free to join. Works in your browser and on iPhone.

How it works

  1. See six ideas

    Picked from both your profiles: shared hobbies first, then strong fits for both, something new, and something in season.

  2. Rank your top three

    And veto one if it's not for you. Your veto is never shown.

  3. Say what you'll handle

    Booking, tickets, food, or covering the cost. Choose to settle anything else on the day.

  4. Choose how to find each other

    A code word, a greeting question, a matched pair of things to carry, or the front desk.

  5. Get one plan

    The app takes the idea you both ranked best and builds the plan, with your question to ask and one choice to make together.

  6. Share your plans

    Send the activity, place, time and a map link to someone you trust, straight from the plan.

Questions

What if we rank completely different ideas?

The app picks the idea with the best combined ranking, and breaks ties toward the one neither of you ranked low.

What if neither of us wants to meet after all?

Either of you can choose None at the planning step, and the match closes.

Your first match could be this week.

Free to join, in your browser or on iPhone. Answer at your own pace, and skip anything with “Rather not say.”