How it works
Built for connection, not for scrolling.
People connect when they're headed the same way, at a similar point in life, doing something together. Zydeby is built around those three things, and it gets out of the way so the connection can happen in person.
Free to join. Works in your browser and on iPhone.
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The ideas behind it
Each step of a match
Answer at your own pace
Start with the basics: what you're hoping for, who you'd like to meet, and your metro area. Add sections over time.
Get one match
Matching runs each night and looks for people who share your goals and fit your phase of life.
Decide privately
Choose what you're hoping for from the meeting and up to three answers to share. More
Plan without chatting
Rank six activity ideas and say what you'll handle. More
Find each other
A code word, a greeting, or a matched pair of things to carry. More
Ask, and choose together
One personal question each, and one small choice to make together. More
Meet, then reflect
A short private review afterward makes the next match better, and you can answer more questions any time. More
The steps, in detail
How it compares
Your first match could be this week.
Free to join, in your browser or on iPhone. Answer at your own pace, and skip anything with “Rather not say.”