Why Zydeby Personal
One match at a time. Met in person.
Endless profiles make it harder to choose anyone. Zydeby gives you one well-matched person, three days to decide, and a first meeting planned around something you'd both enjoy. No chat to keep up, and no wondering where you stand.
Free to join. Works in your browser and on iPhone.
Example screen. Stock photos, not members.
One match, not a catalog
Less FOMO
There's no deck to keep checking, so nothing better is waiting one swipe away. One person gets your real attention.
No decision paralysis
One person, one decision. You weigh a single match on what matters instead of comparing dozens of photos.
A fair chance, both ways
You're not one of a hundred tabs, and neither are they. Matching only offers people who fit both ways.
Straight to in person
A planned first meeting
If you both say yes, you each rank six activity ideas and the app combines them into one plan: a time, a place and a way to find each other. How
No chat to keep up
No inbox, no pen pals, no weeks of messages building a picture real life won't match.
Something to do together
Every first meeting is an activity, and each of you brings one question to ask. Easier than an interview over coffee.
No ghosting
A clear decision
Each of you answers privately: super excited, worth meeting, not sure or pass.
A deadline
Three days to decide. Asking for a photo or a background check adds three more, once per match.
You know where you stand
When the time is up, you either have a plan to meet or the match has ended. Nobody is told who passed. The private decision
Matched on what matters
Goals and life direction
Children, faith, where you want to live, money habits and how you'd run a home. Mark a dealbreaker and you're never matched against it.
Phase of life
Kids the same age, the same kind of work week, newly retired, newly single. Phase of life
Answers stay private
A match sees fit labels by topic, never the answers behind them. You choose up to three to share.
Questions
What happens if I don't decide?
After three days the match expires, and you'll get a new one on the usual schedule.
Will they know if I passed?
No. If either of you passes, the match ends and neither of you learns who did.
Does matching this way work?
It's designed to: one person who fits, a clear decision, and a real meeting soon after. We test our matching on simulated members before anyone meets, and we'll publish real results once members do.
What does it cost?
Joining, matching, group nights and planning are free. The only charge is ID verification, $4.99. Pricing
Your one match could be this week.
Free to join, in your browser or on iPhone. Answer at your own pace, and skip anything with “Rather not say.”